Extra Soft

What is Extra Soft?

Extra soft is the softest firmness option available for silicone toys, typically rated at Shore 00-20, producing an extremely squishy, yielding, and marshmallow-like feel.

What Does Extra Soft Feel Like?

In the world of Shore hardness scales, extra soft sits at the very bottom, typically in the Shore 00-20 range. At this level, silicone feels almost impossibly soft. It compresses with barely any pressure, wobbles and jiggles with the slightest movement, and deforms dramatically when squeezed. If you have ever pressed your finger into a gel stress ball, you have a rough idea of the territory, though extra soft silicone is often even more yielding than that.

This extreme softness comes from the silicone formulation itself. Manufacturers adjust the ratio of platinum-cure silicone components and add softening agents to achieve these ultra-low durometer readings. The result is a material that feels almost organic in its give and responsiveness. Many people describe the sensation of handling extra soft silicone as addictive, which is why squish test videos featuring extra soft toys consistently go viral in the community.

When Should You Choose Extra Soft?

Extra soft is the most popular firmness choice for larger toys. When a piece is substantial in girth or length, a softer firmness makes it more forgiving and comfortable during use. The material compresses and adapts, reducing the effective rigidity and making the overall experience less intense than the same dimensions in a firmer silicone would deliver.

It is also the preferred choice for toys with prominent surface features. Knots, nodules, ribs, and other texture elements feel more subtle and gentle in extra soft compared to medium or firm. For buyers who love bold designs but prefer a gentler sensation, extra soft lets them enjoy dramatic shapes without overwhelming intensity.

What Are the Trade-Offs of Extra Soft?

Extra soft silicone is not without its compromises. Structurally, it is the least stable firmness option. Very soft toys may have difficulty standing upright, may bend under their own weight, and can struggle with suction cup adhesion because the base flexes too much to maintain seal. Fine surface details like scales or delicate texture mapping also tend to look less crisp in extra soft, as the material's inherent squish softens sharp edges.

For harness use, extra soft can be challenging. The shaft may fold or buckle during play because it lacks the internal rigidity to resist lateral pressure. This is why split firmness designs exist, combining an extra soft exterior with a firmer core for structural support. If you want the squishy feel but need functional stability, split firmness is the solution. When ordering a firmness sample, always test extra soft in person before committing on a large order.